Love


 * Love**

1. Passionate love- intense, all consuming, it fades 2. Compassionate love- Friendship, you want to be with other person.
 * Hatfield said there are two basic types of love:**[[image:love_2.jpg width="437" height="305" align="right" caption="http://flickr.com/photos/henny77/358121267/"]]

Love is a journey. Love is a physical force. Love is patient. Love is madness. Love is magic. Love is war.
 * Love is...**

1. a need or attachment 2. caring or a desire to give 3. intimacy According to Rubin love is not something that happens to you - it is something you seek and find. when Rubin was doing his love research at the university of michigan and had students fill out questionaires about how they felt towards the partner and then he divised a scale for decifering between liking and loving he said people in love have the strong desires to be with the other person, to touch, to be praised and cared for, and to fulfill and be fulfilled. Equally central is the desire to give - he said that the state in which the happiness of another person is essential to our own happiness.
 * Rubin said there are three components to romantic love:**